New clothes that were full of the cabinet, "She has been waiting for her daughter to come home"... Taiwan version of the goods organizer: We should reconcile when we are alive, so don t

"Hello, I am Liao Xinyun, the artifact organizer. Today your daughter has entrusted me to organize your clothes for you..." Every time she enters the teacher's family, Liao Xinyun will first "say hello" and tell the deceased or the living: We are about to reach the next stage of our life.

The last gift left by the rebirth. Regardless of why the past is leaving for reasons, it is an important journey for people to feel in their mood and organizing things. "Winning out everything left by the rebirth is not only in the face of the repent, but also in the grief that cannot be prevented. However, through the tidying of things, we can say goodbye."

Liao Xinyun, who has been in charge for a long time, became a waste organizer, but over the years, it has become her life ambition, because what she has sorted out is not the items, but the tragic separation of our relationship.

When alive, be kind to yourself

"The principle of storage is very similar to a concentric circle. The first circle of unwanted items will usually be destroyed items or stuff that will be removed. After agreeing, I will deal with it on my behalf. The second circle is the clothes of the deceased, which will be carried out with my family. , sometimes you will find that money is hidden in the bucket tank, the wardrobe, the clothes.

The third circle is something with thoughts and intentions. It may be small, but the thoughts are worth a lot. Many times, families will cry very much at this moment because they see what is most valuable. ”

Hearing Liao Xinyun sharing a story about organizing objects, it is full of ups and downs like a TV series. What she feels most is that people often have no way to truly live in the present, and there are too many things that cannot be said or done, so they can't see them again. She said that what is more important than organizing food is "receiving before life", and we have to go through a "going to" life.

"I have seen many reborn clothes, and there are many new clothes that have not been torn without any tags. Are you waiting for an important day to wear them? But the clothes are finally locked in the cabinet and we sorted them out. Can we be better for ourselves while we are alive?"

We should reconcile in our lifetime, so that those who love you have regrets

Liao Xinyun remembered that a commissioner had disagreements with his mother since childhood, and left society and never came back.

10 years after her mother passed away, she asked Liao Xinyun to help organize the food. When Liao Xinyun arrived at the scene, why were there all the clothes and underwear of young girls, and all the new clothes with labels?

"When I turned to the photo of the commissioner when he was young, I was locked in the slut, and I seemed to understand something. She was waiting for her daughter who left home to come back one day and could use these clothes; this house lacks nothing, but you are … but she didn't have the chance to wait. My daughter then realized that she always thought that her mother didn't like her, but in fact she loved her so much in her heart."

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In addition to organizing professionals, the space organizer sometimes also plays a companionship role to comfort his family's tragedy.

"The fermentation period of sadness is 100 days, while others take 10 years. When I start to help organize and clear, the space can be used again, allowing the sadness to slowly dissipate and allowing the space to continue love."

"I have sorted out a case. When the commissioner's husband passed away, the child was only 7 months old. Now he has to change his room into a game room. When we are finished, the child naively said in the living room: "My father lives in heaven, he is the sun in heaven!" At that moment, the adults on the scene were all sore, but through this sorting, people can move forward without any skewness."

Every time in a case, Liao Xinyun has experienced a life-washing. She said, "When I do things, I will be grateful for my still living, and for everything I have. I only live once in my life, so that we can say goodbye and make it too late!"

I took it through my life and understood how to live in life

So is there a story that is too late? Liao Xinyun said that a commissioner once contacted a "living receipt" because he realized that he was getting older and older. If he left one day, he would not want to cause his son's burden and would not want his son to inherit his mess.

It turned out that the commissioner had hoarding problems, and the goods at home were piled high, and there was almost no room for walking in the house. His son lived at home, and he used a tray to place three meals at the door of the ovary. In the scattered space, there are two fathers and sons who don’t talk to each other.

"But when I finished sorting out the items I stocked up, the living room suddenly became clear. When I was talking to the commissioner, his son walked out of the room and sat calmly on the living room sand. At this moment, we all felt incredible. The space was cleared and people could move; not only the material adjustment, but also the spiritual space, which became different."

Liao Xinyun said that taking in the living is more important than organizing the goods. "Carrange everything, you will have no choice. Do you understand how you want to live? What kind of gift do you want to bring to your family."

Just like Liao Xinyun's grandfather, she puts her wedding photo with herself when she got married and puts it in the most important items, as if she was an outdoor girl, "You will always be my precious treasure.". "Liao Xinyun, who has love, is full of strength and can help more people convey their lives.

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