"It s because of traveling that I deeply feel that my mother is getting older every day..." Travel writers share how to take her mother to travel

What is your favorite travel format? Follow the group? Free travel? Who is your preferred travel companion? friend? Companion? Children or parents?

Lin Guo, with her sister and mother, has been traveling freely for the past 10 years. For them, the best travel companion in the world is their family.

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forest and fruit, and has published three travel books. Guo Mom, the co-author of the third book, is an athlete who is still traveling around the world with her daughter over 70 years old. She is also a local mother who remembers to eat and spend 10 yuan on the market and is very careful to spend hundreds of thousands of yuan to go out and play.

In the past few years, they have enjoyed the soft silk that the boss has just arrived in the Japanese market before dawn. They have stayed in an old house without hot water because they were traveling to Japan every day. They have been in the beautiful scenery of Huangshan and Jiuqu River like a fairyland. They have worked together in Europe to avoid pickpockets.

Asked about the unforgettable journey, the forest and the fruit and the fruit mom were flowing like water. What impressed me most was that I went to Europe for 3 months 10 years ago.

This was the second time Lin Guo was traveling freely with her mother. She was accustomed to traveling alone, and she didn't seriously think about the difference between taking a mother over 60 years old and going out for fun on the Internet. She asked to remind her to take her to travel taboo—— the time should not be too long, the destination should not be too far, the climate should not be too cold, and the cultural gap should not be too large—— all this journey is available.

On that trip, Guo Mo suffered a lot because she was not compatible with eating and living and walking. The mother and daughter often quarrel.

The trip is full The old mother was abused

The sister arranged a full itinerary to pay back the ticket price, and her physical strength was exhausted, which made her mother burst into tears while traveling in Paris: "From breakfast until now it's past 4 pm, I've been walking, and I don't have lunch and I don't have a rest. I want to eat me to death, but I'm not watching me, and abuse me&helli p;… (two thousand words omitted below)" After getting angry, she announced: "I want to have a holiday!"

So they adjusted their itinerary and moved for a lot of time, but there were several days when they each flew individually. The sister visited the favorite attractions. The mother rested in the B&B, washed and cooked, and lived at home. The two sisters played for a day and returned to the homestay. There was also a dinner cooked by their mother. "But they rushed out after eating, and Kai went to the gate three times." Guo Mo was so angry and funny.

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Going out to quarrel. The hottest relationship is fast and ruthless.

The most serious quarrel is that the night of Jeremy in Munich, Germany. After the quarrel, the three people didn't say a word. The mother wrote: "I'm just stupid and stupid, so I'm cheated on a trip. I will never meet again next time." But afterwards, the three people couldn't remember what they were fighting for.

When we were together for almost 24 hours during the trip, the frequent interactions caused more friction, but the tight life also allowed them to learn how to quarrel —— we must quarrel quickly and ruthlessly, becoming an efficient "hot communication".

"If my mother doesn't have a fever, I won't know that she cares so much." Lin Guo realized that most of the quarrels came from not understanding. She had no desire to take a bath, sleep in the shop, and keep playing and not resting. These "travel daily life" for her are shock and torture for her.

Enjoy slow travel. The family also needs to be reassigned

After traveling to Europe, the mother and daughter went out to play very smoothly. "Because my world finally has them!" Lin Guo laughed, traveling together gave Lin Guo the opportunity to care about her mother's needs and work hard to be a mature daughter. After a few years, it has changed the pace of traveling between children. Two years ago, Lin Guo took his 70-year-old mother to climb Huangshan. It was a mountain road that ordinary people traveled 2 hours a day. They traveled 5 or 6 hours slowly. Lin Guo also booked a comfortable and breakfast hotel on the mountain, making her feel that this trip was "the most fun time."

The communication habits developed by travel are also used clearly in daily life. After returning to Taiwan, Guomo discovered that the two smart and capable sisters who were in a regular manner during their trip were all brought back to their original form and lived a relaxed life. One weekend, after going out to buy ingredients, cook three meals, and clean the kitchen, she said discomfortably: "Why do you need three people to divide the labor when you go out for a trip, and I do it when you go home?" After this "hot communication", the three people are doing it now, the cooking, the buying before, and the cleaning afterwards are all done.

Relying on each other. Feeling that mothers are getting older.

Linguo believes that traveling not only makes people forget unimportant things, but also reminds you of certain important things. "Because of traveling, I deeply feel that my mother is getting older day by day." Guo's mother played from 60 to 70 years old. Lin Guo every time she deeply felt that her mother was getting older day by day. When she was 61 years old, she traveled to Europe together. Almost all her movements were synchronized, but now, although she still went out to play together, she was too far away, standing for too long, too cold, too hot, too hungry and too thirsty, all of which were the biggest burden of her mother's body.

"I don't like the term "filial travel". Travel companions should be partner relationships, approaching, relying on each other, and sharing." Travel created a unique memory of the mother and daughter, bringing understanding, creating equal relationships, and re-understanding the closest family..

3 situations Let the elders participate in the relationship 1. At the meal, the elders will say, "You order it!"

Explanation: The dense rucao menu not only looks difficult, but also makes decisions, but studying the menu is also a fun. You might as well reduce the scope and please order his favorite dish.

You can say this: "You are responsible for a fish."

Situation 2 When climbing a mountain, you are worried: "I am afraid that my mother will not move, so bring a hiking pole!"

Explanation: The elders will feel that they are old with a hiking pole, but in fact, it is much easier to walk with a hiking pole regardless of the age of the mountain.

You can say this: "I think I need a hiking pole to protect my knees. Do you want to prepare one for you?"

Scenario 3 Check-in registration

Common situations: Those who are responsible for the itinerary are checking in, while other families stand aside and wait.

You can do this: first find a seat and let the boss sit down, and find a way to get the room card, so that others can go into the room to rest and organize.

Eat and live well, and long-term needs are also included

1. Weather: It is most suitable for comfortable spring and autumn. It is prone to heatstroke in summer, and you need to keep warm in winter, and the colder you become, the more you want to go to the bathroom.

2. Good living: a place where you can rest, bathe and sleep will become a haven for your journey.

3. Eat enough: When planning, you should do some work for the needs of your elders so that they can feel valued.

4. Time: Flexible arrangement, the group itinerary can also be interspersed with independent movement time, and each one can get the needs.